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It will get better honey, I promise :-)

What happens when you're torn between two people and you see something you want in both individuals? Don't you wish you could take those lovable attributes and put them together to make that one McDreamy?

What happens when you're torn between the man who makes you feel so good, tells you he loves you and you're right for him, but he can't accept something that is bonded to you forever and on the other end you have the man who knows he did wrong and he is willing to make it right, but you can't get past what happened?

I know you have been told to follow your heart, but what if your heart doesn't know what it wants; how do you make it right for yourself? You know you have to make it right for you because if you're not happy no one else can be happy with you. So what do you do?

Most people have to decide on one person, but on some occasions people have to decide between two. They have to decide between two because the first one messed up, you moved on, got emotionally and/or physically attached to the next and now the ex seems to want that old thing back as they know they messed up. Now you're in a situation where you are trying to figure out what is it that you really want. So many factors become involved and that makes the decision even harder. When we become reluctant to certain situations, we tend to phase them out and try to move on, but some how they tend to regress and come back to us. All I can say is do what you know and feel is going to make you happy so you will be able to love and take care of those around you.

By no means will this be an easy decision and you will have to remove the situation from the situation (P. Diddy's words). As I once stated, decisions are never easy and sacrifices are always hard; we must go with what is going to help build and motivate us into the most productive human being possible. Sometimes we yearn for things that are not necessarily good for us, but we see some potential in it and want to give it a shot. But in all actuality, we need to focus and pursue what will embellish our mind, body, and soul. No need to cry for him as chances are he's not crying for you. If he wants you like he says he does, then he knows that he has to make it right for you 120%. Never settle for anything less than phenomenal; you are worth all the love and pure happiness that you deserve. Don't let anyone take that from you or not give it to you. Learn what helps you move forward, Live it to it's fullest potential, and Love it like no other. You're worth it all and don't let anyone, I mean anyone tell you otherwise.

I LOVE YOU HONEY AND YOU DESERVE NOTHING BUT THE BEST!

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